“Morgan, if you could pick the best goalkeeper of all time, who would you choose?” An instant reply was fired back at me, “David Seaman of course”. This was a conversation Morgan, and I (Morgan’s mum) were having a few months back to lighten the mood after hearing the tragic news that a fellow Cornish friend, Ria, who at the same as a Morgan, just 19, had lost her battle with the disease they shared, Cystic Fibrosis.
Literally, a month later, we then heard that another fellow Cornish cystic fibrosis sufferer had been given just months to live – this time a young mum, Jet, who should still have her whole life ahead of her. This disease is so cruel and even though new ground-breaking medication is having a positive affect within the CF community, this disease is still limiting and cutting short the lives of so many loved ones.
Inevitably, such sad news is going to significantly impact others who also suffer from CF, and their families, reminding them that time is precious, and tomorrow is never promised. So, with this in mind, and remembering the echoes of my earlier conversation about legendary goal keepers, I was on a mission to create some memories.
I was aware that in the past David Seaman had supported the CF Trust, a national charity supporting those with CF and their families. So, I thought I’d look him up again, and see what he was up to now. It turned out luck was on our side, because David had just become the president of an amazing charity he was now involved in, called The Willow Foundation. This charity was founded by another mighty goalkeeper, Bob Wilson, whose daughter, Anna, sadly passed away from Cancer at just 31. Bob’s legacy to his daughter was to provide ‘special days’ creating happy memories, to other young adults who have long term conditions or illness.
Stumbling across this charity couldn’t have been any more perfect to help me complete my mission for Morgan. I wrote in and asked the question – Would David be up for creating a ‘special day’ for Morgan? Their response was pretty much instant (just as Morgan’s had been) – The legend that is David Seaman was 100% on board and up for taking Morgan through a professional goalkeeper training session to see if he has what it takes to become pro.
Morgan was bursting with excitement. Morgan’s lifelong goal, quite literally, is to become a professional footballer. This dream will never die.
The day came around and we travelled to Arsenal’s, very impressive, training ground where David met us on arrival. He is the kindest, most genuine man and he was truly a pleasure to meet.
Morgan got kitted up and they were joined out on the pitch by Arsenal’s under 18’s academy goalkeeper coach, Chris Terpcou, again so kind and knowledgeable and, like Morgan, had oodles of energy. The hours training was intense, but Morgan was on fire, and loved every second of it. He eagerly took on board all the technical tips and tricks that were provided. I think they were surprised at his level of ability for someone without academy training and were equally impressed on hearing his clean sheet record (11 out of 19 games) with his team, Falmouth Town, back home. Even Jack Wilshere came over to have a closer look – well, to say hi at least. On meeting him Morgan was a little star struck and suddenly became lost for words.
During lunch, in Arsenal’s first teams canteen, Morgan was able to ask David questions about his career and get a good understanding of how to deal with the challenges goalkeepers face. David gave Morgan his undivided attention, and no questions were off limits, which was great, because Morgan had loads of them. It ended with Morgan doing his own little interview, firing question after question and David’s responses were truly fascinating.
Bob, and everyone who is involved with The Willow Foundation should be truly proud of what an awesome charity they have created. Morgan, and all of us, his family, that when along for this ‘special day’ have such treasured memories that will never be forgotten, no matter what the future holds.
I am still holding out for someone to give Morgan the opportunity to join a professional team, as does he, but either way we are truly thankful to everyone who enabled this day to happen, especially David, for his time, knowledge and compassion.
Thank you so so much.
With love from
An extremely grateful Mum, Morgan and the entire Coxhead family